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Vicki' adventures in wonderland..
that's what they promised me anyway. wonderland.. flowers.. love.. kittens...
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Created on 2008-08-10 13:38:27 (#16330222), last updated 2009-08-18
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Hi! So.. I’m 32, live in Melbourne, bi, married, polyamorous! (boy that's a mouthful isn't it?) I'm looking to make friends, meet people to talk poly, bdsm, life etc with. I’m also a self confessed geek girl!
I live out in the Eastern suburbs - that's toward Ringwood area, and I don't get into the city that much due to the rugrats/hellspawn/little darlings, but I love it when I do get there.
I'm just been trying to re-read this profile and I realised I should say, I type quite badly and I’m sorry. If you're someone who is obsessed with spelling/typing, please turn it off for me? I'll smile nicely! I find my fingers move out of sync with my hands, resulting in some pretty crap typing.
Newest addiciton is Settlers of Catan I htink i am in love!!! :)
What I'm doing with my life
* Looking after my 2 kidlets, and caring for my sisters 3 kids part time, exploring myself & my relationships.
* Learning an awful lot about myself, who I am, who I want to be, how I want to live, and who I want to share my life with. I want to be; happy in outlook, strong, confident, creative, self disciplined, loving, comfortable in myself, flexible with what life throws at me, firm when I need to be, compassionate, healthy, and self aware. I want this for me, and for my children. I want to be an example to the kids that is ok to be yourself and be happy, for you, not for everyone else.
** What do I want to do with my life before I leave the mortal coil.. Here's my list from the 43 Things website. I found it a really helpful tool for not only thinking about what I want to do, but putting some form of priority on the value they have in my life.
1. Play with my kids more
2. Stay happily married
3. Change my thinking pattern/behaviour. Realize my triggers.
4. Be debt free
5. Buy less material, spend less!
6. Nurture myself and indulge in some healthy self-care measures
7. Smile more
8. Focus more on kid’s schoolwork
9. Do my tax return
10. Actually list my stuff on eBay
11. Become a licensed ABA therapist.
12. Stop biting my nails
13. Get fit and stay fit
14. Learn to dance
15. Pole dance
16. I want to work with special needs students
17. Go on a road trip with no predetermined destination
18. Scrapbook all my photos
19. Cycle more
20. Be more confident in myself
21. Kiss in the rain
22. Share a bubble bath in candlelight
23. Catch up on questionable content
24. Learn a strip tease
25. Play World of Warcraft more
26. Take more pictures
27. Update my live journal
28. Update my Blog
29. Play strip poker
30. Show my nipples thru a shirt
31. Go to a strip club
32. Join the Mile High Club
33. Have a one night stand
34. Write erotica
35. Play strip hide-and-seek
36. Swim nude
37. Write messages on sugar packets in restaurants
38. Watch all Harry Potter movies
39. Watch all of Buffy the Vampire Slayer
40. Hook up with 3 guys in one night
41. Read my new book
42. Re-pierce my ears
43. Build all of the Mindstorm robots.
I'm really good at
* Parenting,
* Reading,
* Computer games,
* Internet researching,
* Most things computer related,
* Cooking,
* Photography,
* Drawing,
* Craft,
* Scrapbooking,
* Hiding under the bed with my cat,
* Riding my recumbent tricycle,
* Sitting wrapped in my minky blankie watching movies,
* Loving my life, and nature,
* Pondering whether Elizabeth Swan could have lived happily aboard the Flying Dutchman in a poly relationship with Will Turner and Jack Sparrow.
The first thing(s) people usually notice about me
i talk, a lot, in a happy, excited about life kind of way. . i smile. i don't get lost for words, pretty much ever.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
a) i love sci fi, fantasy, some romance, some non-ficiton
b)Tank Girl, Labyrith, Serenity, hmm what else? Tv wise, anything Joss Whedon, Buffy, Angel, Firefly. Also Arrested Development, Red Dwarf, some old school, Black Adder. Currently obsessed with Dr Horrible, Joss Whedon's online mini series. It's awesome - go, look now. You'll laugh :)
c) Everything not too heavy. Also very idie pop, and girlie music, Marie Wilson, TIDDAS, Pink. Love the Lucksmiths.
d) Not big on meat, only really like beef (in little pieces, can't handle anything big like steak) & chicken.
The six things I could never do without
love, my children, my cats, sex, chocolate, sunshine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
relationships, people, sex, changing parts of my life, exploring more.
On a typical Friday night I am
hanging out being geek girl at home or enjoying having my husband home again.
I live out in the Eastern suburbs - that's toward Ringwood area, and I don't get into the city that much due to the rugrats/hellspawn/little darlings, but I love it when I do get there.
I'm just been trying to re-read this profile and I realised I should say, I type quite badly and I’m sorry. If you're someone who is obsessed with spelling/typing, please turn it off for me? I'll smile nicely! I find my fingers move out of sync with my hands, resulting in some pretty crap typing.
Newest addiciton is Settlers of Catan I htink i am in love!!! :)
What I'm doing with my life
* Looking after my 2 kidlets, and caring for my sisters 3 kids part time, exploring myself & my relationships.
* Learning an awful lot about myself, who I am, who I want to be, how I want to live, and who I want to share my life with. I want to be; happy in outlook, strong, confident, creative, self disciplined, loving, comfortable in myself, flexible with what life throws at me, firm when I need to be, compassionate, healthy, and self aware. I want this for me, and for my children. I want to be an example to the kids that is ok to be yourself and be happy, for you, not for everyone else.
** What do I want to do with my life before I leave the mortal coil.. Here's my list from the 43 Things website. I found it a really helpful tool for not only thinking about what I want to do, but putting some form of priority on the value they have in my life.
1. Play with my kids more
2. Stay happily married
3. Change my thinking pattern/behaviour. Realize my triggers.
4. Be debt free
5. Buy less material, spend less!
6. Nurture myself and indulge in some healthy self-care measures
7. Smile more
8. Focus more on kid’s schoolwork
9. Do my tax return
10. Actually list my stuff on eBay
11. Become a licensed ABA therapist.
12. Stop biting my nails
13. Get fit and stay fit
14. Learn to dance
15. Pole dance
16. I want to work with special needs students
17. Go on a road trip with no predetermined destination
18. Scrapbook all my photos
19. Cycle more
20. Be more confident in myself
21. Kiss in the rain
22. Share a bubble bath in candlelight
23. Catch up on questionable content
24. Learn a strip tease
25. Play World of Warcraft more
26. Take more pictures
27. Update my live journal
28. Update my Blog
29. Play strip poker
30. Show my nipples thru a shirt
31. Go to a strip club
32. Join the Mile High Club
33. Have a one night stand
34. Write erotica
35. Play strip hide-and-seek
36. Swim nude
37. Write messages on sugar packets in restaurants
38. Watch all Harry Potter movies
39. Watch all of Buffy the Vampire Slayer
40. Hook up with 3 guys in one night
41. Read my new book
42. Re-pierce my ears
43. Build all of the Mindstorm robots.
I'm really good at
* Parenting,
* Reading,
* Computer games,
* Internet researching,
* Most things computer related,
* Cooking,
* Photography,
* Drawing,
* Craft,
* Scrapbooking,
* Hiding under the bed with my cat,
* Riding my recumbent tricycle,
* Sitting wrapped in my minky blankie watching movies,
* Loving my life, and nature,
* Pondering whether Elizabeth Swan could have lived happily aboard the Flying Dutchman in a poly relationship with Will Turner and Jack Sparrow.
The first thing(s) people usually notice about me
i talk, a lot, in a happy, excited about life kind of way. . i smile. i don't get lost for words, pretty much ever.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
a) i love sci fi, fantasy, some romance, some non-ficiton
b)Tank Girl, Labyrith, Serenity, hmm what else? Tv wise, anything Joss Whedon, Buffy, Angel, Firefly. Also Arrested Development, Red Dwarf, some old school, Black Adder. Currently obsessed with Dr Horrible, Joss Whedon's online mini series. It's awesome - go, look now. You'll laugh :)
c) Everything not too heavy. Also very idie pop, and girlie music, Marie Wilson, TIDDAS, Pink. Love the Lucksmiths.
d) Not big on meat, only really like beef (in little pieces, can't handle anything big like steak) & chicken.
The six things I could never do without
love, my children, my cats, sex, chocolate, sunshine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
relationships, people, sex, changing parts of my life, exploring more.
On a typical Friday night I am
hanging out being geek girl at home or enjoying having my husband home again.
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